In the Preface of
the book Mike Tucker states; I pointed to the research, talked about my own
experience and shared stories of grief from those I had been able to help. All
in all, my teaching was helpful, and many people acknowledged the value it
brought to their own process of recovery.
Although I had
experienced losses in my own life, I never had the life-altering, devastating
loss that is only experienced through the death of a mate or a child or through
divorce. These three losses are among the worst that humans experience in life.
All that changed on
April 10, 2016 when Gayle Anne Whitacre Tucker-my wife, best friend, and co-laborer
of more than 40 years-passed away. Her loss was unlike anything I had ever
experienced before.
My life was in
shambles, but losing Gayle had another unexpected impact. Her death put to the
test everything I had ever taught in every grief-recovery class through the
decades. It forced me to reevaluate everything I taught and thought I knew.
After putting my own
teaching to the test, I can tell you with full confidence that the published
literature and the time-tested research is, in fact reliable. While every
person and every experience of loss is different, the literature still applies
and can be of inestimable value.
Mike Tucker tells how he made a
plan to grieve and how it helped him through the grieving process.
Coming from one who has been trained, taught the classes and
also experienced grief and loss personally makes this book an exceptional study
for a person who is grieving and also for one who is needing to understand and
help a grieving person.
To read the first chapter of this book for free click here.
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